It seems like the joyous carousel that is Ms. Jergy’s career ride, will continue to spin until I’m eating nothing but soft foods again and they put me back in diapers. Honestly I was prepared for that. Really I was. But it really does surprise me how often these things pop up. Without getting into too many details, she was just ‘offered’ a new position by a friend and former colleague that would require her to commute to Hershey, PA. I should mention a couple of things. First, she has only been in her current job since October. Second, this job would be a pretty decent pay raise (decent enough to continue the discussion). So tomorrow, the discussion will continue. She’s meeting with her friend over breakfast to see what all of these will entail. And then the real talk will begin.
I guess I should also mention that we currently live about 90 minutes south of Hershey. And I should also mention that I already commute 45-60 minutes southwest for my job. Some would think this is a wonderful situation to be in. But I am generally conflicted. One of the reasons Ms. Jergy hops from job to job is that she become bored in what she is doing and is constantly looking for the next great challenge. I, on the other hand, am about as adventurous as….well, as……as some kind of non-adventurous type guy. Honestly that’s not completely fair. Its just I really do enjoy what I do and am happy doing it. My wife is not. I’ve had no problem supporting any career change she has wanted to make in the past but it’s always allowed me to remain where I am happy. Now I’m not so sure that’s going to happen. And its a bit frightening.